Consultation for Parents Therapy for Children

Welcome!

I'm so glad you're here!

Welcome! ✹ I'm so glad you're here! ✹

and if you found your way here…

… you likely have a precious little one in your immediate care and you might have some questions about what’s real in your parenting journey and your child’s development.

You are not alone.

Hi! I’m Sarahbean Falo, LMHC.

I am a play-based therapist and parent consultant dedicated to the well-being of young children (from birth to age 10) and their grown-ups.

Through our collaboration, 

  • You can embody a deeper sense of connection with yourself and your child, and find emotionally responsive ways to be with your children.

  • Parents and caregivers of young children build strategies and skills to navigate the challenges of parenthood so that you can experience abundant delight in your family relationships on a daily basis.

  • Your young children can build skills to identify and navigate their giant, overwhelming feelings.

There are many questions about the social and emotional lives of our children.

  • questions about our child’s social-emotional development and what’s “typical”

  • the stressors of conflicting information

  • identity overload, about how to be and how to see

  • the uncertain landscapes that inform our decisions: sociopolitical, environmental, racial, financial, cultural.

I want you to know that

I see you.

I hear you.

I feel you.

and I have a bit of bright news:

Our most challenging moments present our greatest opportunities.

It’s okay to ask for help.

offerings

offerings ✦

Online Play Therapy

for children, under age 10, and their grown-ups

My offerings in my therapy private practice keep your child at the center of the work, while providing individual and family play therapy sessions online, as well as parent consultation sessions on a regular basis to clarify treatment goals and offer you a place to land. If your child is navigating challenges around tantrums, separation anxiety, anxiety symptoms in general, sensory sensitivities, depression or elongated bouts of sadness, processing a recent ADHD or ASD diagnosis, or difficulty with transitions, I can work with you and your child to find solutions that help build self-regulation skills.

If you are looking for a place to process your own experience as a parent, I invite you to join the waitlist for my parent-centered coaching program, Super Delight, launching in Summer/Fall 2024.

Clinical Supervision

for Licensed Mental Health Counselors in Massachusetts who work with children and families

I provide online clinical and reflective supervision to support you in your work with children and families, build your private practice, cultivate a space to process and clarify treatment strategies and goals, and infuse reflective practices to support your own self-care and personal growth.

Parent & Caregiver Consultation

for any parent in Massachusetts with a child who has big feelings and behaviors and you need a place to land.

Or

EEC-licensed childcare and early education centers in the Arlington / Lexington / Somerville / Medford areas.

These are grown-up consultations around children’s behaviors, relational health, self-regulation, behavior responses, processing recent diagnoses or navigating complex school system challenges, and many other issues that arrive at your doorstep in the complex parenting paradigm of today.

✷ When I say “parent” I am referring to anyone who is engaged in the experience and tasks of parenting: “a person who brings up and cares for another.” Families come in all shapes and sizes. Mamas, papas, Dadas, Adas, parents, primary caregivers, full-time educators, nannies : anyone with a child under age 10 in their care. All genders, colors, cultural beliefs, identities, shapes and sizes welcome.

Questions

(get the curiosity moving through)

+ What is "sarahbean"?

“sarahbean” is my unusual moniker. It is also me. It is also the name of my therapy practice.

My birth name is Sarah Falo, but twenty years ago, I became sarahbean and it stuck – then spread, permeating my personal and professional lives. Recently, it has become my legal nomenclature in the eyes of large overseeing departments—with lots of paperwork to prove it.

The kids I work with get it, because I can use this playful name to align with them and their willingness to see possibility.  It helps that I am accustomed to having freeze-dance parties, playing ukulele and singing about feelings, or doing collaborative art projects with young children.

Calling myself sarahbean is a way to infuse wonder into our daily experiences. It is a way for me to wholeheartedly embody play.  

When we pay attention, we can see that young children are constantly asking us to be playful, to open ourselves to the wonder of the world. Babies and young toddlers babble before they start to shape words in their mouth. Why not give ourselves the opportunity to be playful with language, and adopt new perspectives of how we see ourselves?

When my parent clients meet me in that space in service of their little ones, that’s where the magic happens.

We are beans in the soup of life.

Learn more about my offerings here.

+ Is this therapy?

Yes! With your child as the identified client, I offer play-based telehealth therapy and parent consultation to residents in the state of Massachusetts.

I provide play-based therapy with children from Birth to age 10. It can be short-term or long-term, usually weekly, to navigate your child’s current experience, through the incredibly expressive language of play. My belief is that children know what they need to heal, when in an emotionally safe environment. Play is the language of childhood, and by infusing playful components in online interactions, I can provide information and guidance to children around their emotional world: identifying feelings and sensations, building coping strategies and awareness, all within the context of the relationship.

I also provide therapeutic consultation to parents and caregivers. This is where we can dive deep into the potential reasons for certain behaviors you—or your child—are having. My approach is to be person-centered, which means I try to see the world from your perspective. From there, we focus on your strengths and goals and identify the blocks in-between.

And perhaps you just want to connect and get some resources about specific challenges you are facing with your kiddo, like toilet learning, or how to respond when your child is having big physical expressions (tantrums, for example), you may want some short-term consultations.

+ What is the difference between "Therapy" and "Consultation"?

Consultation services are for the adults who educate, provide care, and guide young children. These services are a proactive approach that provide support and guidance for caregivers during a challenge, problem or transition. Consultation can bring suggestions, strategies and resources to you, based on your particular concerns. It is generally more short-term in nature than therapy and focuses on the problem at hand. My therapeutic consultation services are centered on your well-being as a parent and strengths to help solve your challenge. Consultations can also be an ongoing reflective practice, where we think together about your own story and how that impacts your experience as a parent.

Therapy, short for “psychotherapy,” is a treatment process that is designed to relieve emotional distress and the effects of mental health challenges. In order to qualify for services, your child must have symptoms that align with a diagnosis in the DSM-V-TR.

There are many different theoretical approaches and schools of thought around therapy. I focus on the power of the relationship as a healing force. Through empathic, active listening and emotionally responsive reflections, client-centered therapists can help guide their clients to find meaning and practice techniques to feel more empowered in their everyday life. Therapy can be short-term or long-term, and can provide effective, long-lasting support.

+ I'm on a budget, do you have payment plans?

I am currently enrolled with several insurances in MA through a service called helloalma.com. I accept: BCBS of MA, Point32 Health, Aetna and Optum insurances. Please call your insurance and check that I am covered and what your co-pay may be. My NPI # is 1902111354.

When you pay with insurance, the insurance company has a contracted rate of how much I will be paid out for sessions. If you are working towards a deductible, you will pay that contracted rate per session until you reach that deductible. For example, my full rate is $175 per 55 minute session. However, the contracted rate with insurance may be $126.47, and that is how much you will be responsible for.

 

Don’t just take my word for it ⏤ there’s a reason that so many gorgeous families seek my services.

 
 

“Sarah has a strong sense of justice and commitment to her work. She understands the impact of poverty, violence and racism as it impacts staff and the children. She assists others to see these issues and to think more clearly about them.”

Betsy Abrams, LICSW

“I truly love Sarah, as does my daughter. She is such an inspiration and one of the most encouraging and passionate teachers/counselors I have ever experienced. It is just like talking to a very very close friend, leaving you encouraged, motivated and stronger, while at the same time providing you with tools to master any challenges our day to day life may provide to us. I can not speak highly enough about her and I am very thankful to have her in our life.”

⏤ Caroline, mama of Luna

“Thank you, again and again, for being an open, loving, affirming presence in our child's young life. I know we will see the impact of your presence in his life for many years to come. Treasure box of memories, love, and gratitude.”

⏤ Erica & Deb

 
 

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